Q. How to deal with negative people?
‘The seeker after truth should be humbler than the dust.’
In a gentle way, you can shake the world.’
Be the change you want to see in the world.’
~Mahatma Gandhi
Ans– Accept the flaws of the negative people as they also have some good behavior like positive people. Try to only focus on the good part of them and ignore their bad side, instead of ignoring them completely.
As ignoring them completely is not a easy task because sometimes you need to communicate with them according to the demand of the situation.
- Just be little polite and humble when you are interacting with them, most of the time you might get disappointed that they are not behaving as your kindness.. But that okay… Slowly slowly they will realise it and your relationship will get better.
- Take sarcastic comments,orders and rudeness behavior will a smiling face. They will get confused that how they have to react. But One thing you need to remember always that never ever compromise with your self-respect. Don’t tolerate nuance. If you are not liking any thing just put across your point of view before getting aggressive or taking any further step. But never give your behaviour remote control to any others hand. Because they know how to change the channel.
- Don’t hold grudges try to forgive them.
- See them as they are individual not what you think about them.
- Don’t be a part of negative gossips because it just creates an imaginary image of an individual even if you haven’t seen him/her.
- Sometimes origin of problems between many people are due to lack of communication and misunderstanding. So try to have proper communication, before reaching to a conclusion or having a self assumption.
- Their are some cases when you don’t wanna see or face negative people as the problem is not getting resolved then try to switch with their timings. It means do some other works when they are available and try to shift your focus to something creative, musical or any task which need your 100% focus and attention.
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